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Originally posted by Support2Adopt
Cindy,
Yes, you could have your step daughter read this board and walk away knowing how much her baby would be wanted and loved and how happy she would make a couple feel. On the other hand, you could stear her to a Birthmother board and find the pain lf many women who placed when in their hearts, they really didn't to.
Might I suggest that you get her some unbiased counceling so she can look at all of the options and make an informed decision.
JJ
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great post support2adopt!!
Please wait until after your grandchild is born to make this life changing decision.
Consider that most agencies offer post adoption services (damage control) to all 3 sides of the triad. But WHY?????
Your daughter may be a temporarily vulnerable mother at 16- but adoption is a lifelong process for everyone"touched".
I have links for financial and educational programs available to help single mothers raise their children, as well as community sponsored classes in parenting skills. I'd be glad to PM them to you.
Regards,
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adoptee reunited WITHOUT state, court, judge, agency, or amom approval. Woohoo!
I have my OBC!! pfffffffft!
I missed her, I missed my siblings, I missed the connection, the identity, the ethnic background, the medical history..... I lost something very important in my life for 40 plus years. I am thankful to finally have all that back
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