[vicrose]

Kelly, This had to be a very hard decision for all to make...but a loving one. I am an adoptee...and I truly believe that my birthmother made the right decision when placing me...she had no finances..no husband..and nowhere to live if she brought me home. I love my aparents very much....as do a lot of us here at adoption forums...as a matter of fact..I don't even call them my aparents..they just plain old Mom and Dad..I only refer to them as aparents when I'm speaking about them here at adoption forums. I have a very good friend who is raising her grandson....he knows who his biological parents are....but they are in the same predicament that they were in many years ago when she took over....so God Bless her for raising him.....and God Bless You for having such a kind heart...Hugs, Brenda