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Old 02-04-2004, 12:47 PM
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They would probably at least ask about it if you called anonymously. Quite frankly I think a family war is a small price to pay for protecting the welfare of a child. I suggest if you have any kind of proof of this addiction that you forward it to the agency.

The sad fact is that in my state, at least, I didn't even have to submit to a drug test. If your brother doesn't have a criminal history and none of his references feel obligated to share this fact (my state doesn't ask family members for references either), then unless you do something the agency will never know.

You should also contact your state's child welfare office -- they will investigate anonymous tips, particularly if you give enough details -- dates, name of rehab center, any court appearances etc.

Recovering addicts do adopt, but the fact that your brother is hiding his history and lying to my mind makes him unfit to adopt a child.

Please protect this child. S/he has no one else but you.
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