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Originally Posted By elizabeth

Hi!
My heart goes out to you!!! Raising two children so close in age will be hard, and also, it may put a lot of stress on you and your fiancee and your relationship. I think the answers to all of these hard life questions are in our hearts. If you are already posting this, then you are probably starting to think about the fact that now may not be the right time in your life to parent another child. If you can honestly see yourself comfortable with the idea of adoption, and feeling okay with your decision in six months, 1 year, ten years, then you should pursue this option.

I wish you lots and lots of luck in making this difficult choice!!! I know that as long as you follow your heart, you will make the right choice. If you would like to talk further, my e-mail address is elizbrod@abrod.com

Have a great day!!!

Elizabeth