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I am an adad and it is never to young to tell them. Actually I believe the younger they know the easier it is for them to understand. If they know when they are younger that will give you more time to find out any answers they may have about their bfamily. I don't think there is a common type of open adoption, that is something you will work out with the bparents from the beginning and make adjustments as time goes on. Ours was very open in the beginning but is turning to being semi-open/very limited contact if any. Some start out semi-open/closed and move to totally open where holidays become huge afamily and bfamily gatherings.
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