[BrandyHagz]

I'm a birthmother in open adoption. My daughter has known me as her birthmother forever…from day one “M” has known who I am, and what roll I play in her life. There is a difference in a parental relationship and a birthparent relationship…your daughter wouldn’t have 2 daddies. She would still only have one daddy, but she would also have one birthfather.

Regardless if your husband adopts your daughter or not, she needs to know who her biological father is…