I must say I totally understand. With me I found out I was addopted by my Dad when I was 15 yrs. old. My adoptive father was so wonderful to me and even ofered to help me locate my bio. dad but I did not feel the need and I sure didn't want to take away any feelings that my Dad and I had for one another so I let it go. My Dad was killed in a car accident almost 9 years ago and now that I am 40, I want to know the truth especially that my mother has never given me a straight answer.
