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Thanks you so much for your reply. You answered many of the questions I hadn't even asked yet. Bmom had told me I could attend dr visits and that we could be in the delivery room with her.
She has said that her fiancee (bdad) is fine with all of this. I have spoken to her mother, but never the father. I can't help but feel that she is hidding something.
I had been told that she was half black. Doesn't make a bit of difference to me. When I questioned her mother about it, she said the were American Indian. Maybe that is why she has never come to meet us. I just don't know.
I am going to call my lawyer today, again. I have a background check and fingerprinting down because I am a registered nurse and do home visits for the state. I help take care of handicapped children who live at home. This I think should help the process.
My husband, however, has none of this done. We have been on a waiting list with childrens services since Sept just to begin the classes and home study. Have just begun to look into private agencies when I found out I would still need one. So I guess I can't blame all the delays on my attorney.
You all have no idea what a wonderful help you have been to me and my husband.
God bless all of you
Tere'
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