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I am not sure how to reply to this. Other than it probably wasnt your fault. I dont blame the kids for thier problems I blame the parents. My kids are a reflection me and the way I have raised them. If you raise kids to be kind and loving they will grow up to be kind and loving people. If you ignore them and have them raise themselves then they grow up with the screw you attitude and rightly so. I blame the system for the troubles kids have and I blame the parents. My kids act up in school and I am the one apologizing. I am embarrassed for my kids behavior. I feel like I let them down because I missed something.
that is my job as a mom is to do the best I can and do it with love and kindness. Now I have been told that I am too hard on the kids but I try ( honestly I do) not to be. But there are certain things that I wont put up with. You know like being talked back to or lied too.
I wish there was some way I could help you. YOu like the people who adoped you?
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