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Our agency sux. They do nothing for the whole family. At christmas time the foster kids get tons of presents so many I thought it carried away. But they dont reconize thier parents and they really dont listen to us.
I had a syb group in my home for 7 days we adored them . grandma took custody of them and she emails me all the time to tell me how they are doing and thanks me for taking care of them. That social worker was upset with us cuz we voiced an opinion that we felt they had only been in our home two days and to start visits right way like that was too soon. The kids were 1 and 3 and we thought because they were so scared they should have a chance to trust us before getting shuffled around. We werent against the visits we just thought it was too soon. Instead of just trying to understand where our concerns were coming from she decided to write us up. I said oh thats rediculious.
WE now have four in our home. the workers are different and they are ok they are just slow moving about everything and they have no words of wisdom.
I think sometimes they forget how much as a parent we do. and how much we need thier support and help.
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