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Your last posting is so important for people to hear!! I have also seen those solicitation postings and I think it is important for adoptive parents to be more considerate and also see, more clearly, the BMom's perspective. The most important thing you said is that BMom's are the parents also, they share in the creation and raising of the child, they should and cannot be treated only as incubators.

I can't tell you how happy I am to have heard from you, I feel like I have taken another step in the learning process and I know that a we will find a BMom and BDad comfortable with us and my husband and I with them. I feel, when we are ready, that we will find a good situation for all sides.

I have heard of the ivillage but have not heard of the other sites. Thank you for the suggestion, I will check them out within the next couple days!

Thanks again and good luck.