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Originally Posted By Susan

I have been going to the Adoption.com web site for about two months now so that I better educate myself on adoption. My husband and I are just in the beginning stages of the adoption process. I went to the birthmother's BB to see if I could get over my nervousness that shortly I will be talking to a complete stranger about our lives and hoping that they choose us!!!! There is a birth mom posting negative postings there about adoption. I was just feeling comfortable with some of the aspects of open adoption, but seeing that there is someone out there that turns this nasty a couple of years after the adoption I'm frightened of continued contact after adoption. Anyone out there that can reassure me?