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Ah, the saga is un-ending, as today I received yet another email from my amom, asking "what is wrong with you", and to "get some help". Sad thing, is that is exactly what I have been doing in therarpy all these years. Learning and beginning to understand and accept myself, and trying to heal...and that means with all the relationships in my life..inluding with my amom. How is that she can tell me to go get help, when it's me asking her to get help with me??? These posts above mine are so right...as I do have to accept that I can not fix anyone but myself, and if she's not willing to step up to the plate, I have to learn how to accept that, and move on...without her.
Thank you all so much for your responses! It has helped more than you know!
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