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Kendra, if you are in graduate school, you are old enough to know and have witnessed via friends and family that sometimes men, even thought they love us, do not stay in our lives for a lifetime. Children do however. You are blessed to have great potenetial via your educational pursuits. If you are in grad school you have already attained a bachelors degree. If you are in grad school, you have passed tough exams to gain entry. You have a lot of potential. Realize that any financial set back for you may be a maximum of 5 years. You do not have an inkling at this point in time as to the pain and suffering you will endure by relinquishing your child. It is a lifelong sentence. Please dig down deep within your self to listen to your heart and soul. You will be giving away a piece of your soul you will never regain. I am witness to this as I relinquished my daughter 33 years ago. We reunited last year but we will never regain what we lost, reunion is bittersweet for us - we love each other so much, but what is done is done, lost forever. Please listen to your heart, it is calling out to you as is your child, listen to her.
Wishing for peace to come to you.
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