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I jsut wanted to post to say thank you so mcuh for all the advise. I was very scared and confused when i first posted on here.
I thought very long and very hard about my situation and my options and in the end i decided to go ahed with a termination. I would not have been able to carry on with my college owrk to a high standard if i was pregnant. I would not have been able to give a child the right sort of life at the point i am in my life - i can't even drive yet and my mum still has to bring me food once a week so i would never cope with a baby!
Me and my boyfreind are also completely not ready for this step - we've nly been together for 3 months and both have things we need to do with our lives vefore settleing down.
I did a lot of reseach and i am fully confident that at the early stage i was the foetus was not yet a conciuos human being, and while under other circumstances i would love nothing more than to become a mum and settle down now just was not the right time.
1 week on from the termination I feel ok and have had no complications. I do find my self pondering what if everynow and again - but i am confident i have made the right chocie for my life.
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