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Originally Posted By Jessie

I'm sure you're a loving mom and more than "enough" for your daughter! If you're worried about whether you're providing her with enough stimulation or the chance to experience different things, enlist the help of friends and family. I live with my sister, which is a great help to me...when I get tired she'll fill in for a while, which gives me a break and yet still gives my son time with someone who loves him dearly and is willing to play with him and read to him, etc. I also have other family members with young children who are happy to take Sam along with them on special trips...to the zoo or whatever. It's a godsend.

It is overwhelming at times, I know. I've often felt the same way..."Can I really give this kid what he needs?" It's an awesome responsiblity...but I personally feel that those of us who make it through the entire adoption process are more than up to the challenge.

Please feel free to e-mail me if you'd like to talk more. My address is jbschmo@win.bright.net.