[vicrose]

Nickychaz...May I add one bit of advice when searching for your birthfamily...do not include the children in your search. I am speaking from experience....when I found my birthmom this year..I called her on my birthday..my kids all knew about the search..they knew it meant so much to me to finally find her...and then in one minute on the phone with her..my dreams were crushed..and my 14,11,and 4 year old had to see me in really bad condition for a few weeks afterwards. I say if your search is fruitful..and if your birthfamily wants contact..then by all means then tell the kids if there is going to be a reunion..but I would hold off to see how everything goes first..because children are so innocent..and I kick myself now for letting my children see me when I was hurting soooo badly. Just my 2 cents.....Hugs, Brenda