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Hi Carrie.
Congratulations. Let me first say that I have not adopted through social services but have some recommendations as a social worker with children in residential placement. Prior to meeting with foster parents I would prepare a list of questions, including basic daily routine and eating habits, behavioral issues (foster mother might have a different view than case worker) and how they manage (redirection, positive reenforcement, etc.). I would inquire about ongoing contact with family; I assume that there is some if they anticipate reunification. How does he respond and what is the post visit experience like for him? It is very good news that he has been in the same foster home since being placed in the system; generally that family would be given preferential treatment to adopt. Hopefully they will share why they are not pursuing adoption. If you have been chosen for placement, the case worker should be willing to provide you with some basic information, such as a psychological evaluation, an early childhood intervention summary and medical history evaluation, including any diagnoses if applicable. Since he was removed early and has remained with the same family, he is probably quite bonded to them; the question would be how he might adjust to a transition. It is likely that he would bond again quickly with some work on your part. There is much to consider and much information to gather. Don't hesitate to press in order to ensure that all of your questions are answered. Best of luck. Keep us posted on your visit.
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