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advice....
I do not have experience with this type of situation. But I will tell you what I have learned about kids and the courts.
#1. LEARN how things work. Forget about what YOU think...learn how the courts think and operate within those guidelines. The number 1 mistake I have seen people make is ASSUMING they know best and making a case based on that. Research the judges, and know what they want to hear. (That doesn't mean to lie, just perhaps re-emphasize)
#2. BE CAREFUL about criticizing the system. The judge and the social workers are a part of that system. Think what you want, but don't piss anyone off. (That doesn't mean don't be assertive, just watch the words you use)
3. Don't take things personally. Be objective...no matter what. Keep fighting. As long as the child is under 18, NOTHING is unable to be challenged.
That is the most important stuff I know. Good Luck. Debi
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