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I spoke to my son's amom last night about this subject. Ironically, she would have preferred an open adoption as well. (Ours was closed). To the original poster of this thread, I think the posts here confirm what I said earlier. Every birthmom is different, as is her feelings and emotions. I would have preferred open adoption, Missy M insists that closed adoption was best for her, others prefer semi-open adoption - your daughter is going through maybe the most difficult time she will ever go through, after the baby is born, she will have to live with her decision about this very difficult time for the rest of her life, and if someone else chooses what they think is best for her, well, I just don't believe it would be best for her. As a bgrandparent, just love her and support her and help her in anyway you can, but let the ultimate decision be hers.
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