[Love_um_all]

it does not work that way. They can't just want one and not the other. I would not worry too much because- that makes them look bad. I would go to that meeting and be ready - that is not what is best for the children. There is a bond between the siblings that some people don't understand and with out a really good reason to separate, the state does not separate siblings, esp when they have always had each other. It would be cruel to separate them like that. All the girls have left is each other. You are willing to take both girls, makes your home a better placement. Don't worry, this is on your side.