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i had a very interesting experience this weekend. i don't have any biological children, nor have i tried to have bio children. i do have an adopted son and a foster daughter. a bunch of my friends from high school got together over the holiday. within this year, 4 of them have had babies and i finally adopted my foster son (i have had him for 2 1/2 years). anyway, i bonded to him and all my foster children almost immediatly. regardless of how long they stayed or were supposed to stay. one of my friends whose daughter is 2 months old still feel like she has not bonded to her daughter (she probably has a moderate case of post-partum depression). anyway, it really proved to be that biology does not equal immediate attachment.
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