Every b mom who has responded I have read all the posts and my heart is so touched. I to am a b mom with an open adoption and am so glad I got to cradle my child to my breast and smell her and kiss her and feel her heart next to mine. Truly you must sat hello before goodbye. Your daughter needs to talk to someone who is perfessional in this field so she can weigh out all her choices. Open adoption is wonderful. I am also a mommy to two little girls and my b daughter and my girls knew about each other have spent time together and it has worked.
http://www.picturetrail.com/tinazimm my adoption story. Get to knew the adopting family and you may be very happy to know them. She must feel all the emotions. Out of sight out of mind does not work on this. Bless you and your child and I hope all this wonderful advice will help. God bless every b mom who has walked down this path.