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Open adoption is the only way to go because it does hurt if you have a closed adoption. My husband is adopted and it was a closed adoption and it hurts him to this day. Having a closed adoption confuses him. I also have friends who placed children for adoption and they have an open adoption and they love it so much. They say their children will know where and whom they came from. My husband says it hurts him because he doesnt know where or whom he came from. I am going to adopt and I wont adopt unless its an open adoption. I have seen so many hurt birthparents and adopted children to have a closed one.
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