[Dr. Art]

It does not sound, from your description, like a secure attachment, but more like an anxious attachment. I'd suggest holding off on the bio mom visits and spending a lot more time with your child to help facilitate a more secure and healthy connection between the two of you. If you can take a couple of months off and eliminate the daycare, that would be my best advice at this time. Consider claiming your rights under the FMLA.

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