[bromanchik]

First of all, your child is a mother. She will always be a mother whether she decides to parent after the baby is born or not. Choosing adoption is the hardest, and last decision a parent makes for their child. It cannot fully be done until after the baby is born and seen and held. Anyone who tells you differently has not looked at the research.

The research also tells us that open adoption is a healthier option for all involved. Please visit my organizations website. I am not only an adoption educator, I am a birthmom in a fully open adoption since my son's birth. I would not have done it any other way.