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Please let her see and hold her baby all she wants!
If she does let her baby be adopted and wants open adoption, she should make sure she has a binding court order, so the open door doesn't close on her and her baby. Photos from the hospital, I was 15 and pregnant and my baby daughter was born when I was 16, I held her once and next thing I know the nurses were unwrapping her fingers from around mine and I never saw her again and was told I would not be allowed to have any baby photos of her, a clip of hair or anything, You are one special mom, lady, sounds like you would make a wonderful grandmother, if your daughter decides to keep her baby.
Please follow your hearts, I wish so much I had a choice, my baby was born because of an attack and my mother and family still wasn't there for me, your daughter and her baby are blessed already, they have someone like you, there for them : )
Best wishes to you and your daughter and grandchild, I hope they never have to spend years searching for each other, my search has been 14 years, some have search for so many more, because of closed adoption than I did not choose.
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