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Old 12-28-2003, 11:14 AM
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Dixierae......Why I certainly don't have all the answers for you, would it help if I told you I know exactly how you feel!!!! My bdaughter and I have not yet talked on the phone and we are going REALLY SLOW with reunion, but she has not written me at all in 2 1/2 months. I have accepted the fact that she is possibly just not ready for all of the emotional upheavels involved as she is only 19. I do however begin to wonder what I should do and how I should do it. I have made a decision to write her short notes about once a month to let her know I am "still" here. Her feelings are my number one priority.....I do wish however she would let me know if she wants me to go away or does she just need time or what???? I think the NOT knowing is the hardest part!!!!

Sending ((((HUGS)))) to you, as I know you need them!!!!

Staci
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