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I am a birthfather who as a 19 year old gave up a son 20 years ago this month. I met the birthmother, who was from Nova Scotia, in Edmonton. I searched on and off for her and her brother by contacting ppl with the same last name all over Nova Scotia but had no luck. This past September I searched on the internet for my bson and within a week I was having lunch with the bmom who happens to live quite close to me in Ontario. Small world. Since then I have seached daily on the internet but to no avail. I have also requested a search by the Nova Scotia government but they are currently still working on requests from 2000. In the meantime I will continue searching and hoping.
I was adopted when I was 2 yrs old so I know what it is like to be curious about your birthparents. I hope to find my bson for his curiosity as well as mine. I hope to be his friend and to find out that he has had a good life because after all we made the decision to have him adopted for his own benefit. His bmom and I were much too young to handle raising a child properly. I never even told my parents about the baby until a month or so ago and ironically they said that they would have raised him. That would have saved myself and the bmom 20+ years of wondering and worrying.
Anyways, I am confident that if I perservere in my search that I will eventually find him and reunite with a positive outcome.
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