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I do not see her as being hostile, I see her as struggling to figure out where she fits in. At this stage, birthparents are acutely aware of what they are not, but have no idea as to what they are. Figuring out what we are to our children is one of the most difficult tasks birthparents face. After all there are no birthparent role models to fashion ourselves after.
Cutting down contact is not always the best plan when you are trying to develop a relationship. I think it will only serve to alienate.
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Brenda Romanchik
Insight: Open Adoption Resources & Support
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