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Rob,
It’s hard to know what other people are thinking and feeling, especially in reunion! Did you add her to your MSN Messenger? She may be the kind of person that doesn’t feel comfortable writing emails and prefers to talk in real time, hence the invitation to add her to MSN Messenger. Also, she may be at a loss as to what to say…or she may not be able to come up with the right words to say how she feels. Sometimes you have to give them the benefit of the doubt.
On the other hand…she could just not care…and she could be relying on your to carry the relationship.
It sounds to me like you were really expecting a lot more from her than she was able to give…(the long thought out response) and that in itself can destroy the reunion before it even gets off the ground!
I’d suggest sending her another email…maybe with less info, something light and airy. Ask her how she’s doing…tell her you look forward to talking to her on MSN, and leave it at that. It kinda puts the ball in her corner!
Good luck!
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Brandy
Adopted Adult, Mom & Wife
Mothering From The Sidelines of Open Adoption
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