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I'm not in Texas, but yes, what you describe is the way that the foster-adopt program works in most places. To continue to take in children whose permanent home has not yet been picked places you at risk of losing the child to other people.
If you don't want to lose any more children, then you should investigate an adopt-only program, where the only children you'd take into your home must be already legally freed for adoption and where you are the chosen permanent home.
Being "aggressive" doesn't have anything to do with it. Being picky about the legal standing of a child before you accept the child into your home DOES have everything to do with it.
I wish you luck in whatever you decide, and hope your forever child comes to you soon!
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