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Old 12-18-2003, 05:56 PM
Jackiejdajda Jackiejdajda is offline
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Veronica2 wrote..I am no longer in contact with my son and I hurt.

I think there comes a time when we have to accept that some things are not going to work.

And I also think we need to learn how to forgive ourselves..

Life happens and we make choices.. Sometimes we think they are the wrong choice but maybe they aren't.. Maybe all this stuff is supposed to happen.. Each of us get life lessons..
I think mine was a stinker.. but hey..

My bson and I drift out of conversation.. He stopped contacting for a year once.. But I told him that I was just fine and I was very happy he was okay.. and I was here and any time he wanted to contact he knows how..

And he did contact.. But it was an amazing feeling when I let it all go.. I just said to me.. He's okay and I can live a life..
I can get on with it..

But I know what you are saying.. Boy oh boy do I know..

Jackie
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