Hi Tina, My name is Annmarie I gave up a child almost 4 years ago. I constantly second guess my self about the adoption. My life now is so much more together than it was when I had Tristian. I actually got pegnant by the same man again 5 mons after I placed my son. This time I decided to keep the child, Everything has worked out. I wonder if I kept Tristian would I have pulled things together to raise him. I have come to this conclusion I believe we both did the right thing at that stage of our lives. The way I try to look at it is we took the broken heart because we loved our children more than we loved ourselves. I cant say time heals all wounds it does get easier. Try to remeber all we wanted was a better life for are children.
