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P.S. and to sspete - thanks for your story....your bdaughter is very lucky to have an amom like you. I am glad that you think of her as your child, just like the other two.....becasue that is what she is. Also, I read another post of yours about sending her the stages of a reunion - I sent that to my bmom (without even thinking that she may take it the wrong way) - and she replied that she loved reading it! As long as you present the material as simply information or at least food for thought - I don't see it as a problem. I have a question for you, I want my bmom to read the Primal Wound....but I am scared that she will think that I am trying to punnish her with guilt.....which I am not - I just want her to better understand ALL sides of adoption (she has trouble putting herself in my shoes - those are her words). Should I recommend that book or is that waaaaaay too heavy? Just wondering since were talking about sharing adoption info. Thx.
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