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Willjack, I hope very much that you find your son....you said some very lovely things!
Chucksilly, I wouldn't read as much into the situation as you have. I doubt he is embarrassed of you - not at all - i think that he is probably in a huge transition phase of his life. He's in graduate school (tons of work) and he just came out to his aparents about his sexuality.....that is a huge deal. Please, just give him more time and keep on doing what you're doing. It's great that he always has an invitation to be with you and your family. And I know the secrecy is hard and can feel like a rejection - my bmom has not told my halfsibs about me yet - but if I may guess, I would say that your son doesn't want to drop too much emotional stuff on his aparents at one time. As well, 'coming out' may be about all the emotion that he can handle at one time too. I wish you luck in your relationship!
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