Hi I'm an adoptee and i have been reading through a lot of the posts in this section. I am a little surprised to hear bmothers saying they have a 'Great' or 'successfull' adoption when their child is still very young. You won't know if the adoption has been successsfull until your child has grown up and then THEY can tell you how 'great' their adoption has been.
Having loving aparents does not take away the pain that many adoptees feel and being in an open adoption where you watch your birthmom go home with her 'own' children after a visit is very painful and confusing.
You may feel your adoption plan has been great for you and the afamily but perhaps you should wait until your child is old enough to decide for themselves before you go around telling everyone how great you think adoption is.
