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Oh My Goodness Gaylene, I am so sorry she has done this to you. Rest assured she doesn’t hate YOU but hates the event surrounding your conception. The fact that she has said this to you is beyond thoughtless and rude…while I do advocate for truth, I also advocate for compassion. She is wrong to direct her misplaced anger at you, and frankly, you're better off without someone like that in your life.
How are you handling the news? You might consider finding a therapist that specializes in adoption issues, and discuss your feelings with him/her. Rejection is extremely hard to deal with, and I cant imagine dealing with it in addition to the news you’ve gotten.
We’ll all be here to support you in any way we can.
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Brandy
Adopted Adult, Mom & Wife
Mothering From The Sidelines of Open Adoption
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