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I have three kids already and am pregnant again. I do not want anymore children and neither does my husband. We had both agreed to do adoption. My husband and I have recently separated but are still married. He is in Las Vegas and I have moved to Oregon with our children. He has been in trouble for child abuse twice now and is currently in jail and might be serving 2 to 5 years prison time. He blames his mistakes on me and blames me for him being in jail because I pressed charges on him. Now that he is in jail he is saying that he refuses to sign the adoption papers. The adoption agency I am going through keeps giving me the run around about what needs to be done. My worker keeps telling me to try to talk to him and see if he will change his mind. With him being in jail the only way I can talk to him is if he were to call. He has been away for two months now and still havent recieved a call. So what do I need to do or who do I need to talk to? Should I do a private adoption or is it all the same? If anyone could please help me Id appreciate it greatly.