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You are so correct. I am the wife of an adoptee who lived with bold face lies and secrecy. He has became a bold face liar, cheater, full of secrets and sucicidal ideation. While my love for him is strong, he has taxed the limits of our marriage and confused our son with his behavior. While I wonder about unknown genetic infulences I also wonder what his life might have become if he had been told age appropiate truth in a loving open fashion from the start.
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