[Rinata]

The only thing is in this situation, all of the families being considered are out of state. Two are 3 states away and the other is on the coast. I live in MO so I don't think actual visits would be something possible. I would like to at least get an update around Christmas each year. Since his birthday is right before Thanksgiving, maybe they would be willing to send a card and an update of what all he has done for the year. I don't want to butt in too much, since I assume they wouldn't want the intrusion. My other foster kids were here only short term, not more than 6 weeks and so it was easier to have them leave.