[DannieAS]

I would also say find out everything you can about the special education program in your district...I know things can vary from state to state (but there are federally mandated things that have to happen as well).

I know they are cracking down using OHI (other health impaired) as a primary eligibility where I work because usually the assigned case carrier ends up being the Nurse, and they are eliminating certain people (e.g. nurse, adapted P.E. specialist) from being primary case carriers.

I think everyone that has posted has given great advice. As for the ED eligibility, PP are right, think about if this is the route you are wanting to go. I know for some parents they say "no way"....and I've personally known 2 parents that have craved for this, because they were able to get the help they needed for their child.

Bottom line, you as a parent get to advocate for the best interest of your child in their schooling. Remember those parent rights....if something is not sitting right with you, they tell you how to file a complaint, go to due process, etc. I think there are a few people here that you can pm for more information if you get overwhelmed.