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I know that this was posted a while ago, but wanted to add to the advice you have already been given.
Remember that the decision is YOURS to make NOT anyone elses. Also remember that the circumstances you find yourself in today will not be the circumstances you find yourself in, in the years to come. Babies don't need things they need love, food and warmth. Talk to others who have been in your situation and make an informed decision. If you decide to persue an adoption plan don't sign on with the first agency you talk with. Talk to several, get references and pick the one that will best meet your needs and desires.
I adopted a beautiful baby 16 months ago. Her bmom did not make the decision prior to birth. She had the baby and kept the baby with her for several days before making the decision. You don't have to decide until after you have had time to process the pregancy, birth and your emotions and feelings right after the birth.
I wish you all the best in your journey, and know you will make the right decision for you and the baby.
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Debbie
Foster Parent- Biomom - Adoptive Mom
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