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We have one bio Dd and were unable to have more bio children. We were open to either gender, with possibly a bit of a lean toward a girl. Dh never had any particular longing for either gender, specifically. Just wanted to have more kids. We did discuss adopting a girl, but when it came down to it we weren't adamant about it.
As we read through the little biographies of the waiting children we found that gender wasn't our first consideration at all, so it kind of took a back burner throughout the whole adoption process. In the end we adopted four times and were matched with 3 boys and 1 girl. This wasn't so much by design as just how things worked out.
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Last edited by Barksum : 10-18-2009 at 03:53 PM.
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