I think it is a good idea to keep your baby girl. You are making the right decision, I am sure that if you don't keep your baby you will regret it the rest of your life, because you have already changed your mind. You CAN raise her as a single mommy, and she will love you and one day thank you for your decision. God is always with you and will not leave you alone in this adventure...it is a great adventure to raise a child, I have five and I love them, I am also a grand-mother and love my grandkids. Believe me when I say that you CAN raise her to be a good loving young lady, and if you already have your family support, that is GREAT! I will be praying for you, your baby and your family. Good luck and GOD bless you for the right decision.
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Originally Posted by famousgloria9
I just gave birth last Tuesday to a baby girl. I am single and only 20 years old. I have been going to counseling and had decided to place her for adoption, but that all changed after I gave birth to her. As soon as I had her, I fell in love. She is in foster care now, and I am hating every minute of it. And I am mad at myself for putting her there. I am going to see my counselor tomorrow and I told her that I was thinking that my decision has changed- I now want to parent her. I have a very supportive family (mom, dad, and sister). The rest of my family doesnt even know I was pregnant because most of my pregnancy took place while I was away at school-but I am sure they will love her. I know I will have some explaining to do if I keep her. And I know life wont be easy. I know I will have to sacrafice certain things because of her, and I am okay with that. I didnt think 'love at first sight' existed, until I met her. I cant stop thinking about her. I thought I knew what I wanted to do-- I didnt think I wanted to see her, or hold her-- but I ended up seeing her, holding her, feeding her, and changing her. Am I wrong for now wanting to parent her? Is it possible to raise her and give her a good life while being only 20 and single? (I know Ill have my family there, but overall itll be my responsibility.) Im afraid I have already failed as a parent. I wasnt even willing to give us a chance- and now I am crying every night because I want her back. If someone could give me their opinion or life experience I would really appreciate it. Thanks.
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