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Ryan,
I feel your frustration. I contacted my birthmother a year and nine months ago. She repsonded (via mail - postcard I included) that she is open to a reunion but needed time. I haven't heard back again. Hoping for a letter in the mail everyday for that long is exhausting.
I have come to realize that it must be incredibly difficult for her to tell her family or even just be able to face me. Being patient has been incredibly difficult but I know that the only way to a successful reunion is to give her all the time she needs. Afterall I did wait 41 years to contact her. I think in time your birthmother will come around. I wish I could give you feed back on your letter but seeing I have no idea what a birthmom actually feels I can't.
I wish you the best!
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