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I think some of these are separate issues that overlap. I am very grateful for my bmom, and what she did. I am grateful to my family, who is wonderful. None of that negates the fact that adoption has some flaws, and leave adoptees with questions and things that only the bfamily can help with. That part, I'm not so grateful for as not everyone will be lucky enough to get that chance. For me, when I look at the issues, I have a lot more to be grateful for than not, and even those things I wish I could change make me a stronger, hopefully more compassionate person.
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