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I can definately emphathise on feeling horribly because there are so many children out there on the photo sites, who are seemingly unwanted. I can't even imagine how that must feel. What I do know though, is what I have gone through in my own life experience, and what I can and cannot deal with in a child. My husband and I have actually sat down and made a list of criteria, and determined what disabilities or difficulties we are willing to work with. It is just as hard as going to the animal shelter. Every single animal in there is cute, in their own way, but to try and save them all isn't fair to anyone involved, and some will just end up neglected again. We have decided to just adopt one child, which we know we may be waiting longer to do, but that is better than jumping in and making a decision that might not be forever.
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