[biodadnow]

I found out by mail last year two days after Christmas that I had a son 32 yr. old. he decided to contact me after being reunited with his birth Mom for over 12 years. I was astounded as I was told once after a one time date that the birth Mom was pregnant but never heard anything again untill then. After contact with my family about it and then the birth Mom and then my son I decided that Genes are thicker than water and I wanted more than ever to get to know him. Testing was done which turned out positive but I knew after our first conversation that it was true, I was his father. Having only one girl he was asked to and attended her High School graduation and we spent a wonerful few days together. Now after many calls and emails and letters he has decided on his own to move across the country to get to know me and my family. We have always wanted a son but never would have thought that the Lord would make one appear full grown and wanting to be with us. His 1st birthday was 3 weeks ago for us and now he is hear asleep from the long trip in the other room. Lord I will love this man and direct and guide him with all the love and energy that my parents pursued in their family obligations and love toward me and I hope any Bdads reading this will open their hearts to the family love you were born with and the courage to be a good man whatever the cost.
A new life starts in the morning for me and my loved ones and I'll be ready and willing for the opportunity for the challenge, adventure and excitement.