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I am offended when it is used as a woman who is pregnant, thinking about adoption and a PAP will go, "We met the birthmother today and...." It really just ticks me off to no end because the woman in question has a)not given birth and b) has NOT signed away her rights to parent so technically she is MOM.
I use firstmom most often, only because I did not sign TPR for almost 2 weeks and I will not let anyone take that time away from me being her Mom and making the decisions.
*sorry, emotional today
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